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Jul 7, 2022Liked by Beth Shelburne

The last sign I received was in November 2020. I worked for a local city you government. My job had me in contact with law enforcement officers, including corrections officers.

I intended to retire in July 2021, which would have been my full retirement age. After COVID came and was horribly mismanaged by the Trump administration i decided i had to push that date up. The officers i worked with didn't take the precautions for COVID as seriously as they should have and i knew if i stayed until July I would probably catch it. I turned in a 4 month notice of retirement then. Unfortunately that didn't help me that much. I caught COVID at the first of January. Naturally I passed it onto my wife. While it didn't affect me to seriously, it made her extremely ill. At one point I thought I was going to have to take her to the hospital but I was afraid if I did I'd never see her again. We both survived.

I retired March 1 and I haven't regretted it one bit. So my sign was listen to your instincts, just don't try to be nice and give 4 months notice. If I had left at the end of December I would have been much better off.

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Thank you for sharing. I'm glad you and your wife are OK!

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That is great that you caught the birds song. My grandfather used to record birds. I remember his big reel to reel tape player. The few times I have tried it just with my mobile device I haven't had much luck.

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Dad passed last August (91) at home in hospice. It was not unexpected, we knew it was in the final day or two.

We saw a bobcat that afternoon, maybe 90 minutes later. Had never seen one near their house, and I suppose it's not a shock, what with a patch of woods, small spring, chipmunks & other wildlife, frequent armadillo sightings... But my nephew spotted it 1st & just froze. Blue jays were going OFF, then I looked across and saw it. It ran.

Mom feels like Dad's still around sometimes. Younger brother felt someone poking him awake a few weeks ago. Mom's mom (family originally from Ukraine) was very... sensitive like that about people who'd passed.

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